saw a post that actually makes me think. how do long lasting best friend's friendship actually works? it takes a lot of time to earn the trust, to earn the friendship commitment. i was wondering what do they mean by commitment? is it just be there for you whenever they need you? no, it doesnt. it is more than that. more than even you could imagine. it needs a large huge heart. why do i say that? its because i know no matter what best friends did, how wrong they are, how stupid they are, they still are the one who will go through with you when something happen. everyone make stupid mistakes over and over again. they need someone to show them the right way, they need our support to guide them, to bring them back to the right pathway. sometimes, as best friend, they had bigger responsibility than they ever think because other than family, they could only reach best friend to talk to, to spill to, to consult. there is some situations where they couldnt open their mouth to speak to their family because they are not comfortable with that, only best friends, they can count onto. if we dont have best friend to speak to, imagine how bad could it be. we only can keep to ourselves. how hard can it be? never leave best friend alone facing their problems. hold their hand, tell them its gonna be ok, and go through with them. they need someone to catch them when they fall.